I havn't taken back a word I said concerning anything.
My main issue is not sexual abuse or sexual victimization, but still remains an extremely important topic that should not be ignored.
There are two basic problems concerning this issue:
*sexual harassment in and of itself
*philosophy and beliefs of each individual
People deal with things differently than others. There are so many routes to take with both action and reaction and even more devastating is the endless cycle that people get caught up in.
Some people are simply haters and will trash talk anything about anyone.
I deny this about myself, because I am very observant, careful, and sometimes even hard on myself with words that come out of my own mouth. Because I know how the world turns, I have learned to be very accountable to myself in the words that I say. I ate the name "Veronica," off of the Anchor man. I don't care if I'm blond or not beautiful enough in others eyes. I still have confidence in myself.
It isn't often that I hate on people. This time, its both sensible and vengeful that I single some people out
Megan Fox and the character of Maggie Gyllenhal, "Sherry," out of the movie Sherry Baby.
I mentioned earlier on Twitter, that I am starting to feel more threatened. Yes, they are both beautiful, especially Megan being more, but their beauty means nothing to me. Of course it means something to men.
I am threatened by the overall philosophy and demands of men.
We can't forget the timeless message of respecting oneself and elaboration of definitions.
This is where I am personally complicated.
I will elaborate on each of the persona's, but right now it is time for my opinion.
THEY MADE THEMSELF THE SEX OBJECT. It is part of their reputation of the Hollywood title. It is how they want to be known, looked at, and seen.
I'm sure she tells many people they're just jealous.
But, by their example and fame, it makes it much harder for women who want a better sense of respect to maintain that because they permit men to sexually objectify them.
Sherry had to suck a guys cock to have a job. Because she had a background and was a vulnerable adult, it made no difference when she tried to get a job. The man who hired her literally used her past against her. He made her suck his cock to get a job. Did she even complain? No. Did she tattle? No. She didn't even think twice about it. It is just a part of life that people would just look at a regular part of daily living.
If this is Maggie's true story, I know she is probably going head to head right now on the issue of judgement. One of her own judgemental characteristics is: Once a (blank) always a (blank).
Even in her own philosophy, I will not give her her karma in return. But I'd give her the idea: what if other people would? What if other people would take assumption that Maggie gives head for every job she pursues. That sex is her only point and weapon in winning and achieving anything?
If it were in my hands, I'd at least give her the benefit of the doubt. Not as being the hirer, but as being the observable judge. Because we are enemies, there is no way in hell I'd work with her. If her same drama was a neutral person with a neutral name that has never been in relation to me, I'd give the character the benefit of the doubt. I trust myself as a good judge of character to see if a person can get the job done.
Megan Fox is a threat as well. It is as if it is her way of dying for love. I will never see her eye to eye on that. Never. This is not an issue where I compare myself to her, this really is about the idea in itself. She is a celebrity hot person, because she does it, other men expect their women to be like her.
Of course, there is always the brains battle going on. I bet if she took her clothes off for any man she encountered, she could earn her success up to being a Dr. If I was ever provoked, I would seriously rub it in: You only have success because you made yourself a sex object. Living the married life, it might be different. They could be swingers for all I know. She still has pornography out. Plenty of pornography. I wouldn't initially judge her.
But when I feel my life is on the line, or
if I'm forced to compete with someone
My arguing response would be: You only have success and it easily baby step made for you to succeed and accomplish anything because you made yourself a sex object.
Call me jealous; I don't care. I'm letting people know where I stand and what I think. I will always want to be loved for the person I am. Even if it was the hottest man of the year, I would have to be loved for the person I am. I will never subject myself to being a sex object.
To keep a balanced perspective, I'll own up to having one night stands and even dressing scandelous at times. Do I do it for success? No. I have flings and one night stands because I feel like it. I do it for my own pleasure, my own free will, my own fun.
I have never made the choice to give myself to pornography. Because I can be a partier and have already been made aware; I do have the idea that people can see me. I feel I have already been buried alive on this matter as well without having a chance to have my say or even vent over it. I really do want exclusive sex. A guy can put on whatever kind of front he wants to; sometimes people don't think about it, or know they are always being watched anyway. I have hated my lack of privacy the entire time, but I really am extra bothered that it has never been respected.
Just because I have a one night stand, some people take it to the extreme that I wouldn't care if I was in a porno. This is where I step in to say the world has illogical and fucked up, nothing to back it up judgement.
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